As we approach Thanksgiving – gosh what a wonderful holiday – I like to think about all those things and people I appreciate…
It reminds me however of the importance of being specific in your expressed thanks and appreciation.
I truly believe that the more specific the appreciation or thanks, the more valued your comment can be.
Which sounds better?
- You really did a great job
- The way you managed the meeting and got everyone on board with our strategy was very motivating
- Thanks for your help
- Thank you for taking charge of the charity event, and getting all the widgets in place in time
- I appreciate you
- I appreciate the way you are very considerate of my feelings by checking for my understanding
All that being said, any appreciation is better than none. But the more specific it is, the more impact it will have.
