What is coaching all about?
Why should you consider hiring a coach?
Here are some frequently asked questions about the personal,
executive, and career coaching that I do. If you are interested in scheduling
a free one half-hour coaching session, please contact me at: marsha@marshaegan.com
Thanks! Have an amazing day!
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Regards,
Marsha
Marsha D. Egan, CPCU, API, CPIW, PCC
ICF Certified Success and
Executive Coach
President, The Egan Group, Inc.
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Marsha D. Egan, PCC, is certified by the
International
Coach Federation. She has coached over 1000 hours.
She has taken over 350 hours of coaching courses. She has the
Professional Certified Coach designation. She is a graduate of CoachU,
holds the CoachU Certified Graduate designation, and is a member of the
Philadelphia Area
Coaching Alliance.
More about
Marsha...
See below for Coaching
FAQs...
What clients say... |
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Marsha has been very professional,
helpful and supportive. She is someone I trust in
guiding me to achieve the things I want to achieve in life.
As a result of my shifts in thinking and what I have learned
from Marsha, I'm happier, better adjusted, and more productive
in my personal and professional life. I have thoroughly
enjoyed working with Marsha. She is someone I would
highly recommend as a professional coach.
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"Working
with Marsha has made a dramatic difference in my life. With
her help, I have gotten to know myself better, identify
and correct self-limiting thinking, and reach a level of
personal and professional effectiveness that I never dreamed
possible. I continue to be amazed by the things I
am accomplishing in my life right now (frequently with
minimal effort!). It is easy for me to trace much
of my current successes back to things I learned from
working with Marsha."
---Fortune 500 Corporate Manager
More testimonials
Marsha D. Egan,
PCC, is certified by the
International
Coach Federation. She has coached over 850 hours.
She has taken over 350 hours of coaching courses. She is a
graduate of CoachU, and
is a member of the
Philadelphia Area
Coaching Alliance.
And for more information on Marsha's experience,
click here.
See the January
2008 New York Times
article,
"Coaches Wanted in the Game of Life."
And for a Today Show
segment on life coaching,
click here.
Call Marsha today to find out more about coaching or for a FREE 1/2 hour telecoaching session.
Toll free: 877-749-4036
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What is coaching?
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How is coaching different from consulting,
therapy, confiding in your best friend?
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Why should I hire a
coach?
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Who hires a coach and why?
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Do
you work on personal goals or business/professional
goals?
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So, what happens in the first few sessions? How do we
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Why does coaching work?
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When does coaching work best?
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Why is coaching becoming so popular?
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What are your
fees?
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What do you expect
of your clients?
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How do you coach?
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Please, give me
some context about coaching...
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What about people
who are already doing really well in their lives.
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Can a dependency
be created between coach and client?
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Can coaching hurt
someone?
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Can I hire a coach
just for a short-term, special project?
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How long must
I commit if I start working with a coach?
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Coaching is a growing profession.
Even the most successful people have coaches. Coaches:
- Help people set better goals and then reach those goals.
- Ask their clients to do more than they would have done
on their own.
- Help their client to focus so as to produce results
more quickly.
- Provide clients with the tools, support and structure
to accomplish more.
- Create
accountability for achieving great result
You should hire a coach because:
- You want more, or less... of
something.
- You want to work
with a professional who can truly support you.
- You want to bridge a gap or
overcome a hurdle.
- You want to advance in
your
career.
- You want to grow...
even more.
- You want to do things more easily
and effectively.
- You want to "get
outa your own way..."
- You want to
have more life balance.
- You want to have
a life plan that excites you.
- You want to
figure out "who you want to be when you grow up!"
- You want to be
at the absolute top of your game!
It's as simple as that. Coaches help a client get
there,
quickly.
Coaches focus where their clients need them the most.
Our discussions will probably include:
- Discovering gaps between the
current situation and your desired vision, or helping your
clarify your vision.
- Getting your personal foundation strengthened,
including building even
more self confidence or self care.
- Helping you beef up
your reserves,
and make space for what is truly important to you.
- Coaching you to set goals based on
your personal and/or career aspirations.
- Helping you
navigate around or overcome obstacles.
- Building an
energizing balance in your life.
- Identifying
habits you want to change, and working consistently to
evolve them into new, even more useful habits.
- Mastering
attitude control and enhancing your personal and
professional happiness.
Bottom line, our goal is
to energize you to become even more successful -- however you define
that success! Isn't that
what you want?!
While it depends on your
focus, we may work on both. With the line between personal and business
life blurring, I am trained to
work with you, in total. Each client is different, has
different challenges, and the paths will vary based on their
individual backgrounds, visions, and passions. No two clients are
all like, we will focus totally all and you and helping you reach
your individual goals.
So, how does
it all start
? How do we kick off our coaching relationship with you, Marsha?
Our month to month
coaching program anticipates 90 minutes of coaching -- either
two 45 minute tele -- sessions or three 30 minute tele -- sessions,
plus unlimited brief e-mails and brief phone calls.
When we decide to work
together, and once we receive your first month's payment, you
will receive a "welcome pak" via e-mail. This includes
several questionnaires and background that will help us hit the
ground running. You will also receive a link for a DiSC
personal profile assessment, valued at over $100, which is
included in the first month coaching fee.
We usually spend the
first session and part of the second going through the DiSC
assessment together. We can also start working on current
challenges and opportunities. Then, as we work together,
the focus will "morph" in the direction(s) that serve you
best... and at the pace of that works for you!
We do most of our
coaching on the telephone: it is called tele-coaching.
You call at a pre-scheduled time. Most of our clients work on a
monthly basis, and schedule calls with us. Calls last 30 or
45 minutes. Clients may meet with us, but most find
the telephone to be most effective. Some clients prefer more
frequent tele-meetings, and elect three 30 minute sessions; others
prefer having more time per call--they elect the two 45 minute
sessions. We try to accommodate what works best for each
client--sometimes preferences change from month to month.
It is important to
remember that coaching is a process, not an event. It is about
changing, for the better, and it takes time to change. While
some people understand concepts intellectually -- immediately, some
attitudes and approaches require changing habits, and that just does
not happen overnight. We recommend that clients view coaching as a
valuable investment in their long term success. We
recommend that our clients commit to at least 3-6 months of
focused attention to realize positive results.
Our fees range from $450 to $1,000 per month
for individualized and executive coaching, which anticipates 90
minutes of telecoaching sessions. Group coaching starts at
$200 per month. Hourly
rates are also available.
There are several administrative guidelines that
we ask you to follow:
- Fees are paid in advance, due on the 1st of each month.
- The monthly fee covers two or
three sessions per month, plus unlimited brief e-mails and
unlimited brief phone calls.
- We accept credit
cards and personal or corporate checks.
- Payments must be
current for coaching sessions to be conducted.
- I expect your best…
If you are hiring me, then you're probably ready to do
and be your best. And if you aren't doing your best, I'll
ask you to. If you can't do that at the moment, I'll understand
and do what you need to be heard, and helped back on to
your path.
- I expect you to be open and honest with yourself
(and me…!)
I ask that you grant our relationship enough room so that
you can reach your goals quickly. What that means is that
you be willing to be brutally honest with yourself and
me. It is important that you tell me all of what you are
thinking and feeling and that you are willing to listen
to what I have to say. And, you should take the time you
want to develop the trust you need between us.
- I expect you
to be willing to change... Coaching is about
changing-for the better. The more you are open
to change, the greater the possibilities for forward
progress.
- I expect you to use me as a resource,
not as a dependency…
As your coach, I am a resource for you to use to your
best advantage: I have an almost unlimited amount of love,
compassion, forgiveness, strength for you and I can share
many principles which will increase your success and add
to the quality of your life. AND, I ask that my clients
use me as this resource and friend that I am, but not to
let themselves get into the position of needing me (or coaching)
as a dependency thing or fix.
Because each Professional Coach has his or her own style of
coaching clients, I thought that you would be interested in
knowing how I coach:
- I make direct requests…
From time to time, I'll make a requests, like "Will
you accomplish X by the end of the month? You may say yes,
say no or offer another solution. It is your choice... But at
the end of each call you will commit to what you intend to
accomplish by our next call.
- I am straightforward…
If I am sure of the situation, and you're open to it,
I'll make specific suggestions on how to handle a problem
or "go-for" an opportunity. If I am not sure, I'll say
so. Honesty is one of my values--I am straight and expect
the same from you. Regardless, use the best of what I say
and use your own judgment.
- I don't step over much…
When I hear a funny tone in your voice, or notice something
amiss, I may ask you about it. Often, it is these small
moments, which offer the chance to resolve something. However,
I don't confront or push; I'll merely invite you to look
at something.
- I request fieldwork…
I usually ask that you come up with two or three
goals, actions or shifts to have between one call and the
next. If it is too much, say so. If you want more, just
ask.
- I am unconditionally constructive…
No matter what happens during our call, you can expect
me to say only those things, which further your life and
your goals. If you are disturbed, I do understand. If you
are stuck, I will be patient. If you can't wait to share
a victory, I will celebrate with you. I will not make you
wrong, criticize you, complain to you or gossip about you.
- I want to hear from you
when something great happens... Send me an email or
give me quick call when you want to share. You don't have
to wait for your next appointment!
- We never
reveal who our coaching clients are... If you wish to
tell others that you are working with us, that's great.
they'll never hear it from us.
- I'm "on your
side!" Nuff said.
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Consulting.
Consultants are experts who advise clients. With
coaching, we recognize that you are the expert on YOUR hopes
and dreams, and what "makes you tick." Coaches are
experts on the methods that will help you get there. Unlike
consulting, the coach stays with the client to help implement
the new skills, changes and goals, to make sure that they
really happen.
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Therapy. Coaching is not therapy. Coaches don't
work on "issues" or get into the past or deal much with
understanding human behavior. Coaching is about moving
forward, not necessarily delving into the past. That knowledge may come as
clients move forward toward personal and professional goals
that will give them the life they really want, but it should
not be the focus of a coaching relationship.
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Sports. Coaching includes several principles
from sports coaching, like teamwork, going for the goal,
being your best. Unlike sports coaching, most professional
coaching is not competition or win/lose based. Coaches
focus on strengthening their clients' skills, not on helping
them beat the other team. Coaches look for win/win solutions.
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Best friend. A best friend is wonderful to have.
But is your best friend a professional who you will trust
to work with you on the most important aspects of your
life and/or business? Is your best friend unbiased? Have both - a best friend and a coach.
They are not one and the same.
For an interesting article
reflecting these differences - "Coaching is Like Riding a
Bike" by Michael Stratford, MCC ,
click here.
Many things, but the most important are:
- You take yourself more seriously.
- You take more effective and focused actions immediately.
- You stop putting up with what is dragging you down.
- You build
extreme self-confidence
- You learn to own
your attitude
- You create momentum so that it's easier to get results.
- You set better goals that are more exactly what YOU
want.
- You take action.
You achieve results.
- You change. For good.
Coaching works for several reasons:
- Synergy between the coach and client creates momentum.
- Accountability
to yourself for taking positive action
- Better goals are set-ones that naturally pull the client
toward the goal rather than goals that require the client
to push himself or herself to the goal.
- You develops new skills, and these skills translate
into more success.
Coaching has been demonstrated to have very powerful results
when three factors are present:
- You have a strong desire to develop your potential
- There is a gap between where you are now and where you
want to be, and
- You are ready and willing to take action to achieve
the results you want. In other words, you are willing to
change. For good.
That is all that is really necessary for you to fill those
gaps, and create a more satisfying and successful work and
personal life.
Coaching is becoming popular for several reasons:
- Many people are tired of doing what they think they
"should" do and are ready to do something special and meaningful
for the rest of their lives. One problem is that many can't
see what this is or, if they can, they can't find a way
to reorient their life around it. A coach can help them
do both.
- People are realizing how simple it can be to accomplish
something that several years ago might have felt out of
reach or like a pipedream. A coach is not a miracle worker
(well, sometimes they are), but a coach does have a large
tool kit to help the Big Idea become a Reality. Fortunately,
people now have time and resources to invest in themselves
in this kind of growth.
- People enjoy having an
unbiased confidant, advisor, and cheerleader who has the
client's best interests at heart.
A personal coach does just what an athletic coach or music
teacher does, only in a fuller and bigger way. A coach challenges
you and takes the time to find out what winning in life means
to you. A coach is your partner in living the life you know
you can accomplish, personally and professionally. A coach
is someone to hold you accountable for your life, to make sure
you really do live up to your potential.
No matter where you are in life, there is always an opportunity
or desire
for more. More success, more money, closer relationships, a
deeper feeling of meaning in life, etc. It is the nature of
people to want to attain more, become more, be more, and we
all struggle with how to get what we're looking for. How to become
even better...
Most people believe that "hard work and doing it on your own"
are the keys to finding the life, success, money, or happiness
that they seek. They believe that a price must be paid to attain
what they want, and often that price is poor health, not having
enough time to enjoy life, strained family relationships or
lessened productivity. The saddest part is that, even though
this effort may result in more of something, it is often not
the something you had in mind, and you end up back where you
started, or worse, further from your real intentions.
Athletes and performers know about this trap. They know they
need someone else, a trained someone else to help them set
goals, discover real needs, and work effectively toward ultimate
goals of excellence. So, they are willing to hire a coach or
a teacher. No serious athlete or musician would expect to progress
very far without one.
You might not need a coach. And you might. Does Tiger Woods
need a coach??? Are you doing what you most enjoy? Are
you tolerating anything?
Is life easy? Are you going to be financially independent
within the next 15 years? Do you have what you most want?
We've discovered that, often, people need to expect more out
of their lives. A coach can help in this process. Tiger Woods is
at the top of his game; he has a coach. Why shouldn't you?
Not really. The client may "need" the coach in order
to maximize an opportunity or accelerate their growth, yet not
be "dependent" on the coach. Anyone who's working on major
changes "needs" structure, advice, support and a place
to brag, so, in that sense, the coach is certainly helpful,
but an emotional, psychological dependency is not created.
The coach works with people who are just fine and strong
enough on their own. Remember, we're not resolving issues
here. The coach is helping the client to create a better
future: More success, more money, more fulfillments, and
a higher quality of life.
No. Remember, coaches aren't doing psychological work. They're
not trying to control the client's thinking. They're not
cattle prods; they're partners. They focus on the here and now,
and the future. Your future. They are enablers.
Yes. Some clients hire a coach to help them accomplish specific
goals or projects. Usually, however, the client keeps working
with the coach after that because there are even more interesting
things to accomplish.
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